Little Girl

This is how you lose her.

You lose her when you forget to remember the little things that mean the world to her: the sincerity in a stranger’s voice during a trip to the grocery, the delight of finding something lost or forgotten like a sticker from when she was five, the selflessness of a child giving a part of his meal to another, the scent of new books in the store, the surprise short but honest notes she tucks in her journal and others you could only see if you look closely.

You must remember when she forgets.

You lose her when you don’t notice that she notices everything about you: your use of the proper punctuation that tells her continuation rather than finality, your silence when you’re about to ask a question but you think anything you’re about to say to her would be silly, your mindless humming when it is too quiet, your handwriting when you sign your name in blank sheets of paper, your muted laughter when you are trying to be polite, and more and more of what you are, which you don’t even know about yourself, because she pays attention.

She remembers when you forget.

You lose her for every second you make her feel less and less of the beauty that she is. When you make her feel that she is replaceable. She wants to feel cherished. When you make her feel that you are fleeting. She wants you to stay. When you make her feel inadequate. She wants to know that she is enough and she does not need to change for you, nor for anyone else because she is she and she is beautiful, kind and good.

You must learn her.

You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.

You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.

And, this is how you keep her.

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Tue, 14 May 2013 20:07:46 -0400

hannahlynnn: lagerthalothbrokes: Sometimes people have a hard...

Mon, 13 May 2013 17:51:55 -0400

hannahlynnn:

lagerthalothbrokes:

Sometimes people have a hard time understanding what a happy relationship between two people who obvs think the other is awesome looks like.

We think this is one great (and holy bananas, so freaking hilarious) example.

#my face hurts from smiling so much

Omg

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Mon, 13 May 2013 02:02:17 -0400

my—teen—quote: Are you a teen? This blog is just...

Sun, 12 May 2013 21:10:41 -0400

my—teen—quote:

Are you a teen? This blog is just for you!

1997teens: bambisociety: crystalshades: bridgemcgidge: sherco...

Thu, 09 May 2013 01:50:28 -0400

1997teens:

bambisociety:

crystalshades:

bridgemcgidge:

shercockandmycrotch:

everyone needs a waving snail on their blog

i feel that if I scroll past this and don’t reblog it the snail is going to look to the ground and cry

that comment

im sold

gotta do it now

there’s some sorcery on that comment.. reblogged too..

ughh omg i have to reblog it what is this?

everyone reblog this or the snail is gonna be sad ok

l4vish: i need this tbh.

Wed, 08 May 2013 18:19:33 -0400

l4vish:

i need this tbh.

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Tue, 07 May 2013 23:11:05 -0400

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Tue, 07 May 2013 09:44:54 -0400

If you’re a teen you must follow this blog.

Tue, 07 May 2013 00:08:12 -0400

If you’re a teen you must follow this blog.

depthsinme: Personal blog that you will love!

Mon, 06 May 2013 09:19:14 -0400

depthsinme:

Personal blog that you will love!

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Sun, 05 May 2013 01:26:40 -0400

crystalshades: Everyone is beautiful :)

Sat, 04 May 2013 09:56:08 -0400

crystalshades:

Everyone is beautiful :)

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Fri, 03 May 2013 18:47:38 -0400

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